
2025β2026 Sunday School
LESSON 17 β HANDLING CRITICISM / STAY PURE
π 28th December 2025
π Adult Bible Text: Matthew 14:3β10
π YAYA Bible Text: 1 Thessalonians 4:1β5
π§ Adult Memory Verse: Galatians 2:11 (KJV)
π§ YAYA Memory Verse: 1 Thessalonians 4:3 (NKJV)
πΉ Theme Overview
This weekβs lessons focus on personal discipline and spiritual maturity in two key areas of life.
The Adult lesson (Handling Criticism) teaches believers how to respond wisely to feedback, distinguishing between constructive and destructive criticism while developing emotional and spiritual intelligence.
The YAYA lesson (Stay Pure) emphasizes the importance of maintaining sexual purity through conscious discipline of the heart, mind, and body.
Together, these lessons reveal a powerful truth:
π Spiritual growth requires both a teachable spirit and a disciplined lifestyle.
When believers apply these principles, they will:
grow in wisdom and self-awareness
maintain a pure and honourable life
develop emotional maturity
reflect Christ in both character and conduct
π§ A teachable heart and a pure life are essential for a victorious Christian walk.
Adult:
π Galatians 2:11 (KJV)
βBut when Peter was come to Antioch, I withstood him to the face, because he was to be blamed.β
YAYA:
π 1 Thessalonians 4:3 (NKJV)
βFor this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you should abstain from sexual immorality...."
Adult Bible Passage:
π Matthew 14:3β10
YAYA Bible Passage:
π 1 Thessalonians 4:1β5

π Believers must respond wisely to correction and live a life of purity and discipline.
Adult Bible Passage:
π Matthew 14:3β10 β John the Baptist and Herod
This passage shows the consequence of rejecting correction and truth.
From the passage we learn:
Herod imprisoned John the Baptist for speaking truth and correcting his wrongdoing (v3β4)
John boldly criticised sin despite opposition (v4)
Herod struggled between conviction and fear of people (v5)
He eventually made a wrong decision to please others (v6β10)
John was executed because truth was rejected
π This passage shows that rejecting correction can lead to destructive decisions.
π Reflection: Do I accept correction or resist it when it challenges me?
YAYA Bible Passage:
π 1 Thessalonians 4:1β5 β A Call to Purity
This passage teaches Godβs expectation for a pure life.
From the passage we learn:
Believers are called to live in a way that pleases God (v1)
Instructions are given through the authority of Jesus Christ (v2)
Godβs will is sanctification and purity (v3)
Sexual immorality must be avoided (v3)
Believers must control their bodies in holiness and honour (v4β5)
π This passage shows that purity is Godβs will and requires intentional discipline.
π Reflection: Am I living in a way that reflects Godβs standard of purity?
ADULT CLASS
YAYA CLASS
Criticism is feedback that helps us become better when handled correctly. It can either build or destroy depending on how it is given and received.
π₯ A. Types of Criticism
1οΈβ£ Constructive Criticism
Points out mistakes for improvement (Galatians 2:11β14)
Provides guidance for growth (Matthew 23:23)
Should be received as helpful feedback (2 Samuel 12:7β13)
2οΈβ£ Destructive Criticism
Is hurtful and malicious (Proverbs 12:18a)
Can lead to anger or aggression (Proverbs 15:1)
Often attacks personality rather than solving problems
π Recognising the difference helps believers respond wisely.
π₯ B. Dealing with Criticism
To handle criticism effectively, believers should:
1οΈβ£ Listen carefully before responding (Proverbs 18:13; James 1:19)
2οΈβ£ Seek clarification where necessary
3οΈβ£ Evaluate whether it is fair (Luke 12:57)
4οΈβ£ Look for truth in the feedback (2 Corinthians 13:8)
5οΈβ£ Take responsibility when necessary (2 Samuel 12:13)
6οΈβ£ Ask for better alternatives (Proverbs 11:14)
π’ C. Additional Principles:
Focus on the issue, not the person (Genesis 13:7β9)
Avoid anger (Ecclesiastes 7:9)
Remain calm and respectful (Ephesians 4:2)
Walk away if emotions rise (2 Timothy 2:24)
π Handling criticism well builds maturity, humility, and growth.
Purity is a deliberate lifestyle of remaining spiritually and morally clean.
π Hebrews 13:4 β God honours purity and judges immorality.
π A. Our Roles in Staying Pure
1οΈβ£ Guard your thoughts (Matthew 5:8; 1 Peter 2:11)
2οΈβ£ Protect your heart (Proverbs 4:23)
3οΈβ£ Keep your hands clean (Psalm 24:4)
4οΈβ£ Guide your feet rightly (Psalm 119:101)
5οΈβ£ Train your eyes to focus on purity (Matthew 5:28; Luke 11:34)
6οΈβ£ Filter what you hear (Proverbs principles; influence of input)
7οΈβ£ Control your speech and actions (Proverbs 22:14)
8οΈβ£ Avoid bad company (1 Corinthians 15:33)
9οΈβ£ Renew your mind with Godβs word (Psalm 119:9; Romans 12:2)
π Purity requires intentional discipline of every part of the body.
π B. Benefits of Sexual Purity
1οΈβ£ Freedom from bondage (Proverbs 6:26; Galatians 5:1)
2οΈβ£ Peace with God and self (Psalm 51:12β14; Psalm 119:165; Isaiah 48:22)
3οΈβ£ Confidence and boldness (Proverbs 28:1)
4οΈβ£ Protection from consequences and shame
5οΈβ£ Honourable living (Esther 2:2)
6οΈβ£ Healthy relationships with God (Genesis 39:7β9; Ephesians 5:3β5)
7οΈβ£ Escape from Godβs judgment (Hebrews 13:4)
π Purity leads to peace, honour, and spiritual strength.
How Both Classes Connect
Adult Class β Handling criticism with maturity
YAYA Class β Maintaining purity with discipline
Together they reveal:
π Spiritual growth requires both correction and consecration.
Accepting correction refines character
Practicing purity protects destiny
Living a Disciplined Life
A strong believer must develop both:
a teachable spirit
a disciplined lifestyle
π Proverbs 12:1 β Loving correction leads to knowledge
π Ask Yourself:
Do I respond positively to correction?
Do I allow pride to resist feedback?
Am I guarding my thoughts and actions?
Am I living a life of purity daily?
A believer who applies these practices will:
grow in wisdom
live a disciplined life
avoid destructive patterns
reflect Christβs character
π COMPETITION PREPARATION
If you are representing RCCG HoD in the regional competition, focus on:
β Types of criticism
β Differences between constructive and destructive criticism
β Steps to handle criticism effectively
β Meaning and importance of purity
β Roles required to stay pure
β Benefits of sexual purity
Participants should be able to explain clearly:
β Why criticism is necessary for growth
β Why purity is essential for a believer
π Proverbs 27:5 (KJV)
βOpen rebuke is better than secret love.β
Father, help us to accept correction with humility and live a life of purity. Give us the grace to grow in discipline and reflect Your character daily. In Jesusβ name, Amen.
Stay Aligned.
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