Adult:

1 Corinthians 14:40 (KJV)

“Let all things be done decently and in order.”

YAYA:

Psalm 139:14 (NKJV)

“I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well.”

👉 These verses show that believers are called to live with both dignity in conduct and confidence in identity.

Adult Bible Passage: Titus 3:1–2

YAYA Bible Passage: 1 Samuel 17:33–36

Adult Bible Passage:

📖 Titus 3:1–2 — Decent and Respectful Conduct

This passage emphasizes the importance of believers’ good conduct and social etiquette in a way that reflects faith and upholds the principles of decency and respect.

From the passage we learn:

• Believers should be subject to rulers and authorities (v1)

• They should be obedient and ready for every good work (v1)

• They must speak evil of no one (v2)

• They should be peaceable and gentle (v2)

• They must show humility to all men (v2)

👉 This passage teaches that Christian conduct must reflect order, humility, and respect.

🔎 Reflection: How does your everyday behavior show that you are a representative of Christ?

Etiquette is a code of polite behavior within a culture, society, or professional group. The Bible teaches that believers must apply decency and orderliness in whatever they do.

🔥 A. The Need for Etiquette

1️⃣ People around us must not feel embarrassed by our behavior
📖 Colossians 4:6

2️⃣ We must avoid irrational conduct
📖 Titus 3:1–2

3️⃣ Without etiquette, society would show too much impatience and disrespect
📖 1 Peter 3:8

4️⃣ Etiquette makes us cultured people who leave a mark wherever we go
📖 1 Peter 2:9

5️⃣ It teaches us mannerisms in eating, talking, walking, and behaving
📖 Proverbs 23:1–2

6️⃣ It is essential for a lasting first impression
📖 Philippians 4:5a

7️⃣ The way we relate with others speaks of our personality and upbringing
📖 Proverbs 18:24

8️⃣ Etiquette helps us earn respect and appreciation
📖 Luke 6:31

9️⃣ Etiquette helps us to value relationships
📖 Proverbs 25:17

👉 Etiquette is not mere culture; it is a practical reflection of order, respect, and Christian maturity.

🌍 B. Practical Examples of Social Etiquette

Believers may experience different seasons such as:

1️⃣ Do not rush to take the front seat at a gathering
📖 Proverbs 25:6–7; Luke 14:7–11

2️⃣ Do not call someone repeatedly if they do not pick up; respect their time
📖 Matthew 7:1

3️⃣ Return borrowed money or items promptly
📖 Psalm 37:21

4️⃣ Be modest and do not take advantage of your host
📖 Proverbs 23:1–2

5️⃣ Learn fairness and thoughtfulness in relationships
📖 Hebrews 10:24

6️⃣ Do not comment negatively on people’s appearance in public
📖 Psalm 139:14

7️⃣ For men, be gentle and respectful; rudeness is not manly
📖 Titus 3:2

8️⃣ Do not be intrusive or careless with others’ privacy

9️⃣ Do not be a busybody in other people’s matters
📖 1 Timothy 5:13; 1 Peter 4:15

🔟 Avoid disorderly behavior such as jumping queues, breaking traffic laws, littering, reckless slang, poor table manners, and improper dressing

👉 Social etiquette helps believers reflect Christ in public and private life.

Self-worth connotes the core beliefs you have about your values. It is often shaped by background and life experiences, and it influences many life decisions. Positive self-worth is central to healthy relationships and fulfilled living.

📘 A. Understand Self-Worth

Our value comes from knowing that God created us in His image and likeness.
📖 Genesis 1:26–27

God values each of us deeply and considers us precious.
📖 Isaiah 43:4; John 3:16

The three major components of self-worth are:

1️⃣ Self-awareness
The ability to recognize emotional triggers, habits, strengths, and weaknesses. This forms the basis of many decisions.
📖 Judges 11:9; 16:16–17

2️⃣ Self-acceptance
Accepting life’s setbacks and imperfections with patience, compassion, and confidence.
📖 Job 1:20–22; Philippians 4:6; Matthew 6:27

3️⃣ Self-love
Taking care of yourself, setting boundaries, letting go of toxic relationships, and nurturing your strengths.
📖 Genesis 13:7–9

👉 Healthy self-worth helps believers live confidently and make wise decisions.

📘 B. Overcome Negative Self-Perception

1️⃣ Negative self-perception often begins in the mind
📖 Proverbs 4:23

2️⃣ Identify and confront harmful thought patterns
📖 2 Corinthians 10:5

3️⃣ Replace lies of inadequacy with the truth of God’s Word
📖 John 8:32; Romans 12:2

4️⃣ Avoid comparing yourself to others
📖 2 Corinthians 10:12

5️⃣ Do not rely on human approval; your worth is based on God’s approval
📖 1 Thessalonians 2:4

6️⃣ Let go of past mistakes and embrace your new identity in Christ
📖 Philippians 3:13–14

7️⃣ Accept God’s grace in your weakness
📖 2 Corinthians 12:9

8️⃣ Speak words of life and affirmation over yourself
📖 Proverbs 18:21

9️⃣ Maintain an attitude of gratitude
📖 1 Thessalonians 5:18

👉 A renewed mind produces a healthy self-image.

How Both Classes Connect

Adult Class → Social Etiquette
YAYA Class → Self-Worth

Together they reveal:

👉 When believers know their worth in Christ, they should conduct themselves with dignity, discipline, and respect.

• Self-worth shapes identity

• Etiquette shapes interaction

• Both reflect Christ in daily life

🧠 Knowing who you are in Christ should influence how you behave around others.

Living with Dignity and Confidence

God desires believers to live with both inner confidence and outer decency.

🔎 Ask Yourself:

• Do I truly believe I am valuable in God’s sight?

• Do I allow people’s opinions to define me?

• Does my conduct reflect Christ?

• Am I disciplined and respectful in my interactions?

A believer who applies these lessons will:

• live confidently in Christ

• treat others with respect

• avoid careless conduct

• build strong and healthy relationships

🏆 COMPETITION PREPARATION

Focus on:

✔ Meaning of self-worth
✔ Components of self-worth
✔ How to overcome negative self-perception
✔ Meaning and need for etiquette
✔ Practical examples of social etiquette

Participants should be able to explain:
✔ Why believers must not rely on human approval
✔ How self-worth affects confidence
✔ Why etiquette matters in society
✔ How believers can reflect Christ through conduct

📖 1 Corinthians 14:40 (KJV)
“Let all things be done decently and in order.”

👉 Adult and Yaya Weekly Homework

👉 Adult and Yaya Mock Quiz

Father, thank You for teaching me my worth in Christ and how to live decently before others. Help me to walk in confidence, humility, and proper conduct, in Jesus’ name. Amen.